well, let's see: "would you like to have a cup of coffee with me?" ( looking me in the eye) - naaaaa, boring....:-D
"I would love to have a cup of coffee together" - not!
"I would love to ask you out for a cup of coffee" ( and I'm thinking: hey, no, why is it just a cup of coffee?):-D - not again!
But, again, what do I know?:-D

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