Sveta, i am not your husband for you to talk or not to talk back to me.
but how you are saying whatever you are saying in the last couple of days feels personal...

Now, go back to your group and read the posts, you, your friend and many others write to others, to people they don't agree with...and come back and tell if it's always respectful and not personal...
otherwise, you are just like the rest of us here - not objective... ..