here is the thing with gays: if they were offered the same rights as the rest of us, they would have no need to "parade" their sexuality in the open. I dislike this publicly open parading just as much as other folks, but have to say that actually most gays do not dwell on their sexuality, and those who do - have some emotional issues.... And I also see another side of this issue ( where I could be wrong, and - nothing personal against anyone talking here, trust me ): most homophobes and those who want to deny gays their rights have some psychological issues of their own, either with sex or with control, otherwise - why would they care what others do in their bed and with whom? and , moreover, why would they feel a need to deprive them of some rights?
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