pro kostum - eto smotrya gde vyi rabotaete. Esli kostumyi ne prinyato nosit, ne nosite. Nu a esli mozhno (tipa advokatskih kontor), to nosite. A vot naschet komplimentov, Olya pravilno vyirazilas. Prostoi kompliment luchshe vsego - ved' vse genialnoe prosto. I ne nado dumat' obeim storonam - "did he mean what I think he meant?" "What did he mean by the word 'good'?" "if I say movie star coat, will she think that I said her butt looks big so she has to cover it with a coat?" i tak dalee. No mne kazhetsya, chto SH eto bolshe otnositsya k otdelnyim sluchayam, gde odin iz uchastnikov nemnogo ne v sebe. V osnovnom, narod bolee i menee vosprimchiv k komplimentam (esli oni konechno prostyie, a ne v stile "those are a nice set of h (so) (so)ters you have!"). I ya dumayu komplimentyi nado prosto po situatsii delat. Esli vidish chto u nee glaz nemnogo dergaetsya, to luchshe promolchat i skazat: "Can you believe the weather today?"

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